Sometimes it feels like something important has been ripped out of my chest and I am not quite sure why. I am not quite sure why I am not allowed to be with the person I love. Then my brain kicks in and says “well because he doesn’t love YOU stupid”. Then I stupidly wonder when could that have happened even though logically I know it was in front of me for a long time.
He was trapped. He was trapped in a relationship that he didn’t want and for a while you were the only one dreaming about riding into the sunset with this man.
He pushed you away every chance he got because you weren’t what he wanted. Yet you still get caught wondering why and act on the premise that it can’t possibly be true.
Breaking up is hard. Being dumped is hard. But being dumped and having to accept that it was over for the other person longer than it was over for you… Or having to face the fact that you guys were not in the same relationship or having the same experiences. It makes you question the very history of the relationship; was he ever in love? were those moments ever good? were they ever worth it all? were they significant? am I significant?…
When I was crying uncontrollably because I didn’t want to be without him, he was thinking “oh man I need to get out of this”.
While I couldn’t stand a second apart, he was probably just annoyed at my constant presence and questioning my sanity for always wanting to be with him.
And I just wonder if he ever felt the same as me? But I guess the answer is obvious and I just don’t want to accept it. Accepting it might hurt even more. Admitting to myself that I just didn’t mean to him what he meant to me would give him an unfair place in my life.
It would mean that I will continue being belittled by this man and I just can’t accept it. I will make him dirt in my heart because he IS dirt. A person that doesn’t place you as high as you place them IS worthless.